The 'small mouth/small breasts' thing is not so cool, but then it's not news that Sherlock's an ass even when he's not trying to be.

I think I've had a skewed perception about when people are being an ass and when to just roll my eyes and go, "Yup, you're kind of incompetent with people but I won't hold it against you!" ever since I was called "Rat-Features" by a guy who couldn't work out why the name made me burst into tears rather than want to go out with him (we were in our early teens, and he apparently had a pet rat that he was very fond of and who I reminded him of...) XD