"I would have you, right here on this desk, until you begged for mercy twice."
Non-con (though no violence) Sherlock/Irene. Because it's still non-con if you're pressured into it as some part of a one-upmanship game, and you're still left feeling shitty and small afterwards when they've finally left.
Asexual or demisexual Sherlock/John, with Sherlock unable to reconcile the fact that he *is* bothered by Irene's actions when he feels it shouldn't matter, and John putting the pieces back together and reassuring Sherlock that the way he naturally wants to act is perfectly reasonable and fine, and it's perfectly rational to be upset by someone removing your control over your own body.
Coercive non-con/dub-con I/S
Non-con (though no violence) Sherlock/Irene. Because it's still non-con if you're pressured into it as some part of a one-upmanship game, and you're still left feeling shitty and small afterwards when they've finally left.
Asexual or demisexual Sherlock/John, with Sherlock unable to reconcile the fact that he *is* bothered by Irene's actions when he feels it shouldn't matter, and John putting the pieces back together and reassuring Sherlock that the way he naturally wants to act is perfectly reasonable and fine, and it's perfectly rational to be upset by someone removing your control over your own body.