Totally agree! I don't understand why Sherlock's character is not even taken into consideration when people write about him having a relationship. Irene, Moriarty, Mycroft and Sherlock himself were perfectly clear about his personal life. As a friend he's very peculiar and more often than not doesn't look like a good friend at all but as a lover he's suddenly normal or even experienced? That's why I prefer reading very genish johnlock or pure gen. But if somebody fills this prompt I'll read the hell out of it!!!
Re: John/Sherlock. Their relationship never becomes normal. Virgin!Sherlock.